Just looking at the LED is impossible to say what tint and bin it is. Turn that light on and see for yourself what color it puts out. If you're unable to determine whether it's cool or warm, than it is really not important.
EDIT: If the colours on the screen look right, than i would assume...
As long as you use proper gauge wiring, yes. But keep in mind that there will be some voltage drop in the wiring which will the driver have to compensate, so don't push the driver to the upper voltage limit.
3 XM-Ls at 1A will produce more light than one at 3A and they would also need way les heatsinking, meaning your heatsinks would be way smaller and lighter, mounted on the hexacopter they would also have constant airflow.
You have already split your strip in two halves and you already have two drivers? Where is the problem? Wire aech half to it's own driwer and you're good.
Firs of all remove that lens and let us know what LED is hiding inside, than can we talk about replacement. Otherwise it will be royal PITA to focus the beam with existing setup.
With that buckpuck you're not getting even close to max lumen. That driver is pushing only 1000mA to the led and MT-G2 on copper can handle way more than that. Using a copper PCB and solid copper heatsink with a led capable of doing 18W driwen at 6W is a total nonsense, waste of time and funds...