WalkIntoTheLight
Flashlight Enthusiast
Keep in mind that it is not just a matter of "experience" (or knowledge). The ability to safely use Li-ion cells involves more than experience and knowledge - it also requires the discipline to rigorously follow safety rules. I've known experts that have seriously injured themselves because they are either too absent-minded or too sloppy to adhere to safety protocols. These and related factors all need to be carefully considered when lending advice on safety.
Yes, but that applies to everything that involves some level of danger if you're not careful. I suspect well over 90% of vehicle deaths are caused by drivers who have valid licenses. Yet, people still drive, and don't always pay attention. Good swimmers sometimes drown. Electricians sometimes get electrocuted. Construction workers sometimes die on the job.
Lithium-ion batteries aren't inherently any more dangerous than most things in life.
I recommend Eneloops to newbs, or people that just want something hassle-free and easy. Lithium-ion is for people that are familiar with them, and proper care. If you use them with a good charger, and in a light with proper voltage and heat protection (like Zebralights and others), they aren't any more dangerous than your laptop or cell phone battery.