I still often will leave my home without my phone for short trips. I never carry it on me when I do have it and it remains in my vehicle. I will check for missed calls and messages every now and then and I hate doing any type of transactions by phone. Weirdly enough I also hate drive through fast food and will almost always order inside.
On duty my shift knows to reach me by my radio as again if I am away from my vehicle I will not have a phone. It is actually very refreshing to not be stuck to my phone daily as I see so many others that are. I have trouble doing anything online if it is not from my desktop computer. I do not even have my email set up for my phone as it would just get on my nerves.
I actually remember not having a cell phone until the age of 27 I believe and the reason I got it then was my employer required me to have one. I very vividly remember using a public phone booth for quick calls on the road. I believe I am much more happy without any social media footprint and my cell phone bill is dirt cheap as again I never use it and only need a basic phone.
It is nice that phone plans are back to being cheap.
And, I'd agree; the less social media in life, the happier people are. There's pretty robust data to support that, too. Social media tends to MAKE us lonely, angry, anxious, and isolated.
Also didn’t get a mobile phone until in my 20’s.
No (anti) social media, no other forums (although I have been a member of other ones in the past).
I use a PC as little as possible these days and while I’m not glued to engaging with my phone constantly, I do carry it for various reasons most places I go.
If it wasn’t for my phone I’d likely not look at the forum at all.
Come to think of it I’d go back to life before phones (and all the other BS) without question.
I was actually a super early adopter of cell phones, because it was cheaper at the time for my family to get cell phones than have a house phone (my mom called long-distance a LOT).
I remember explaining to my friends at school (this was maybe the late 90s) that they couldn't call the house, and they'd have to call my phone, and I showed it to them. We were ALL so confused.
"Why do you need a phone with you?"
"I don't know..."
And then T9 texting became a thing, haha.
"Why would I want to send you a message?"
"I'm not sure..."
Mind you, this was coming from nerds who built PCs, played games, and were online all the time, haha. Back in the dial-up days, haha.
We loved technology and were fascinated by it, but just confused by mobile phones, haha.
I also hardly ever outside of work use a PC. The phone is more convenient for me and most likely limits my engagement and depth of conversation. My personality also contributes as I typically don’t have much to say. Also life is busy and there is always work to be done on the property.
The younger generation has such a short attention span that is why I suppose a picture or short abbreviated text is all they care about and if it’s longer than a paragraph they move on. The format Reddit uses works for them. I believe that is why Snapchat and Instagram are popular with them.
The attention span thing has gotten REALLY scary.
I was reading recently that a lot of young people struggle with multi-clause sentences, so anything using a comma is essentially unreadable, because by the time they get to the end of the sentence, they've already forgotten the beginning...
And then, because they axed phonics in favor of "sight reading" because "research shows..." the kids can't read.
I have a particular bone with that topic, because I hate how fad-driven education is (likely tied to the fact education is over 3/4 women, who seem to LOVE a new fad), and studies are often based around "ideal learners," or in the case of that study, fully literate adults. It's insane that we shifted the way we teach reading because no one stopped to ask, "Do LEARNERS do things the same way as the proficient!?"
So, I do partially feel bad for the kids these days, because their failures are also our failures. Parents don't help their kids, parents don't hold their kids accountable, parents scare off the good teachers with the help of the administrators, and then everyone blames them when they're incapable of doing basic things.
(And yes, some of it is cultural shifts as the demographics of the U.S. have changed; we have less people from education-focused cultural backgrounds than we did previously)
A phone is a tool. It’s how you use that tool that determines what you get back. I limit their exposure especially apps on mine to only those that give me information I’m interested in or require. That works for me.
As far as Reddit I like how I’m able to have all my hobbies in one place. Watches, fountain pens, pocket knives and now flashlights. I’ve learned a lot from the variety of users from all over the world. New products pop up quickly. Lots of great pictures to give you a good idea what the item looks like or how it performs. For me it definitely has a place.
If you're looking for the newest things, I would 100% agree Reddit excels at that.
Many of the "deal" subs are decent on account of that.