I've bought way too many USB chargers over the years.
I'm currently using these:
UGreen 160w 4x USB-C, 1x USB-A charger
and a bunch of the Anker display chargers
Anker 100w charger 2x USB-C, 1x USB-A
Anker 140w charger 3x USB-C, 1x USB-A
Anker 160w charger 3x USB-C
Anker Nano 45w charger: 1x USB-C, pocketable
I will say that most of them won't run at the full rated power for extended periods of time before throttling, but I never need that. The UGreen is interesting, but has some limitations. Only two ports are high-powered. The remaining 2x USB-C and USB-A ports are shared, so plugging/unplugging renegotiates all 3 of those ports and reduces how much power it sends to those devices. Still, having 5x USB ports out of one brick is very convenient.
The Anker Nano is pocketable enough. I've grabbed it, plus battery pack for the multiple times I've had to take family members into the ER this year. VERY nice to not have to worry about a phone battery, especially after 10-24 hours.
I've mostly gone to USB-C cables for everything and use connector adapters like these if I need something different. I also keep a few multi-headed USB-C to C,A,Lightning cables the bag just in case.
I hear you on that. After my dad's doctors screwed up his meds and he had a brain hemorrhage and went unconscious, I had to step in for everything. Home finances, healthcare, living arrangements, taking care of his wife, and the wind-down of his business. There's a lot involved. After a very long medical battle, even longer recovery, I have him in a very nice assisted living home, in the memory care section. He's still improving. I feel bad that I've been so tied up with my fiancée's health issues and haven't been able to spend time with him and work with him to get better enough to live in the regular assisted living side.