Your example sums up the experience I have gained here over, I would say, the last 3 years. In my case, my personal economy changed to where I could actually buy the lights I wanted and got recommended. Before that, what good would the knowledge do me, if I couldn't act on it. Partly hence my hiatus here for a time. And I felt I couldn't recommend to others what I was recommended, without personal experience with the product.Insofar as portable lighting tools are concerned, the product offerings have unquestionably matured. The level of knowledge among the community in general has also increased, making many of the discussions common in the earlier years unnecessary.
For example, if I want to describe a light, I can summarize by describing it's physical dimensions, it's weight in your pocket, adding info such as emitter type, color temperature, output levels, candela, cell configuration, and runtimes at various output levels. Most of you will readily form a mental image of the light and whether it's of interest or use to you. The overall level of knowledge in the community allows for this kind of shorthand, making the longer discussions of times past unnecessary.
But with the increased income a few years back (got a new and better paid job), I suddenly found a renewed interest and took back up my flashlight hobby. And by reading and googling and reading some more, I could make informed decisions on the lights I wanted to try, instead of spending a lot of money in the hopes of getting what I wanted. And following most of those recommendations, I have successfully found both favourite emitters and specific flashlight models - many of which I likely wouldn't have bought, because I couldn't even understand many of the terms and numbers on the charts I was looking at.
But the most important thing to me that I have learned here, though mostly through personal trial and error but based off of flashlight recommendations I have received here, is learning how important good light actually is. I recently replaced all the light bulbs in the house, and I haven't once since instinctively turned my eyes away from a bulb because it has felt simply like ugly light. And all the new ones are CRI 90. Before I had between whatever and CRI 80 at best. And an almost random mix of CCTs and CRI-values - back to not knowing what to look for, or being to afford what I should be having. Now it's 6 USD bulbs, instead of 1 USD ones.
And my current bedreading light, an Emisar DW4K, E21A 2000K (R9590 according to the stats), has been a bliss I didn't even know how much I had been missing. It is so beautiful and relaxing to be around before trying to sleep. As much as I am obsessed with hCRI lights, I will agree it is not often needed (depending on the usecase, obviously), but everyone should own one light with the best CRI possible. If you're not feeling well or feel really tired, you don't need your brain to work more by doing the automatic compensations and colour corrections for what the eyes see - if you have hCRI light around you, it is another button the brain can turn off, and add that energy to trying to relax and get better instead.
Based on everything I have learned here, particularly in the last 3 years, if I were to recommend 2 specific emitters, I would say Nichia 519A, 1800K, and Nichia E21A 4000K mix (4500K + 3500K). As for flashlight models, I would say Convoy S21E for the 519A (with diffuser), and Emisar D4K for the E21A. The former is only CRI 70, and the latter not very powerful (~1200 Lumen), but those 2 are the emitters I am very glad I have experienced and own.