All the best to you mate. The thing with your wife digestive system, do she eat wheat? Some people are gluten sensitive and do not realise it. I would strongly recommend reading this book called "Brain Maker." I know there is not much science yet, into what roles your gut flora plays in your bodies system. I read there is around 10,000 species of organisms that live in your gut. Imbalances of good bacteria and bad can do havoc to your system. It might be worth a shot reading the book and giving it a try. Once again, all the best to you mate and thank you for sharing.
Hang in there, martinaee, get the best medical advice you can and follow it. Ask questions and do your research to be sure you understand your situation and your options. There's lots of good information on the web from first-rate sources like Sloan-Kettering, Mayo, Hopkins, UCSF, et al.
This can be one of the best gifts in your life, if it helps you to become fully present to the present moment. Look for the blessings and you will find them. For instance, this can be a powerful positive force in your relationship with your wife, if you deal with it together.
As a survivor of stage 3B prostate cancer (five years and counting), I speak from personal experience.
Looks painful![emoji15] I hope everything works out mate.
She's been to so many doctors over the years and it never seems to solve anything.
How did that procedure turn out with your friend?