Sorry to read about your Mom, raggie33. However, some believe your Mom killed herself by choosing to smoke. Just as my sister did.
~ Chance
This is an interesting point you raise, Chance. Along the same lines, my sister and brother in law's ( once BOTH 80 a day smokers, my sister now reformed for about 6 years, brother in law as heavy as ever ) third child has MAJOR INTERNAL HEALTH issues. One being MAJOR cardiac problems, with, I think, about seven open heart ops. She is certainly a member of the 'Zipper Club'. She is now 19 and every day is an ' extra ' bonus. Her mum ( my sis ) smoked right through three pregnancies, despite all the advice against doing so, etc etc. Their heart specialist, whilst not saying directly that the ciggies contributed to, or was directly responsible for these problems, has implied as much.
Interestingly, sis and b.i.l. don't see this point, to this day. This girl, though, has these problems, forever, however long that may be ?! Another case of the bloody things ( smokes ) contributing to someone's eventual early demise, through absolutely no fault of their own. Very frustrating. Meantime, we all wait for that call........
I feel for anyone else in that same boat.